It’s Friday night, a little before 10pm* and i`m writing an article on dating tips… so lonely over here… hahaha ironic.
Just kidding guys 🙂 I`m going out partying after this so i`m gonna make this quick. Hope some of you are doing the same thing.
* I finished the article the next morning.
It has come to my attention that most of the guys that are asking me for help on hooking up with chicks are either asking help on lines or what to say.
I got no problem with you people asking me that but, I`m gonna let you in on a secret….
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A MAGIC LINE!
There I said it. Yes I know some of the dating companies will want to fuck me over. Boo fucking hoo.
Its good to have clever lines. It builds up intrigue and mystery sometimes, but after all, in the end what is a relationship really about?
The whole magic happens when you discover what is more to your partner than simply his/her image. When you share intimacy and appreciate every small detail of them.
And sometimes when that Frero Rocher has been shared with a kiss (thats just asking for some good hot kinky sex).
How can you really arrive there if you`re constantly using lines?
You gotta dig deeper than that. You gotta be genuinely interested in the other person.
That`s if you want a relationship. (I love these color headliners)
Some guys just want to fuck around here and there. By all means, I find nothing wrong in that. If two persons find each other sexually attractive and they both agree that they want nothing more than to leave themselves dipping in pure ecstasy due to an heaven-like orgasm… then certainly why not?
The whole seduction-game is fun. The whole mystery, excitement and rush of the chase makes the sex in the end so much more enjoyable. Specially if both persons know how to please and be pleased.
BUT I NEVER, EVER AND FOR THE SAKE OF GOD I’LL REPEAT IT ONCE MORE, EVER, ENCOURAGE A GUY TO LIE, CHEAT OR MANIPULATE A WOMAN IN ORDER TO HAVE SEX WITH HER.
I never really understood what it means to connect with someone before…
Sincerity = SEX
Being genuinely interested it means, no matter what happens, you have an unconditional intrigue of her person. You will want to know what is behind her whole character without expecting something in return.Women can sense this a mile away, and the only people in her life that are really genuinely interested in her is her family and her close friends. Those people can be counted on her fingers.
Being curios will only help you develop as a person in every other area of your life also.
“But Paul, Curiosity killed the cat!” you maight say. Well then thank God you`re not cat.
Go out there, start exploring what’s the world around you.
Stop being focused on what people think about you and focus on what you think of the people around you.
Its all part of living you life in the 80/20 way.
Until next time